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<blockquote data-quote="Miserable" data-source="post: 342342" data-attributes="member: 15969">So today, my grandad decided it was time to read the will. My Nan passed away Tuesday and the vicar came today so everyone was in one room and he thought it'd be an appropriate time to read the will - I think what hit me the most was that this was happening in realtime because the past few days it just didn't feel right, it didn't feel real. A few days before, I think Sunday? My Nan was gardening and picking strawberries for my Dad to take home, talking about my birthday and looked happy and healthy. What hit me was how quick she was there one minute and gone the next and the fact I actually had a full blown conversation with her 4 hours before she passed away again just talking about my birthday and what everyone was doing, she even planned what she was going to do when she came out. It was really hard today and I'm just hoping I'll be okay for the funeral on Thursday.&nbsp; I was really close&nbsp; to my Nan, she'd babysit us on the weekends and did that for 11 years, christ forbid, me and my brother spent alot of time with her whilst our parents worked when there was no school (Summer Holidays, half terms, weekends) She wasn't even old, she was 70. I'm worried about Grandad too, he's always been with her and she did everything for him..So hey,How do you get through times of grief because I'm just about managing?</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Miserable, post: 342342, member: 15969"] So today, my grandad decided it was time to read the will. My Nan passed away Tuesday and the vicar came today so everyone was in one room and he thought it'd be an appropriate time to read the will - I think what hit me the most was that this was happening in realtime because the past few days it just didn't feel right, it didn't feel real. A few days before, I think Sunday? My Nan was gardening and picking strawberries for my Dad to take home, talking about my birthday and looked happy and healthy. What hit me was how quick she was there one minute and gone the next and the fact I actually had a full blown conversation with her 4 hours before she passed away again just talking about my birthday and what everyone was doing, she even planned what she was going to do when she came out. It was really hard today and I'm just hoping I'll be okay for the funeral on Thursday. I was really close to my Nan, she'd babysit us on the weekends and did that for 11 years, christ forbid, me and my brother spent alot of time with her whilst our parents worked when there was no school (Summer Holidays, half terms, weekends) She wasn't even old, she was 70. I'm worried about Grandad too, he's always been with her and she did everything for him.. So hey, How do you get through times of grief because I'm just about managing? [/QUOTE]

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