If you want us to help let us see the emulator and if it is giving errors. Another thing we will need to know is do you disconnect after a certain activity? Talking - clear chat logs Or clicking a jukebox in the catalogue - delete it from catalogue items. We need to know what the emulator error like ywori said
Check is there are any critical expectations in the emulator folder should be called "errorsexceptions.txt" or either "criticalerrors.txt" (could be something else) post it here if there is one, if not it might be your connect manager in the emu (Connection Manager.cs I believe)
It's been Pheonix 3.11.0 After the rival forum relaunched themselves.. once the site became online the servers have been trying to reach it, but aaron blocked it :/