Is been a virgin something to be proud of or ashamed of?

[Straya]

These days you see 15 and 4 year olds fucking each other silly then rubbing it in. Is been a virgin something to be proud of or ashamed?

 

[Dzetki]

Depends. If you want to save yourself for "the one", you should be proud. But if you become 30 and is still a virgin, you may start to become a bit ashamed. Well, if you've got good reasons to be a virgin by then, you don't need to be ashamed.

 

[Logic]

I lost my virginity this year on October 4th and I'm 19 years old. I had plenty of opportunities to lose it in the past, but chose to save it for the girl I've been with for 6 and a half months. I'd bullshit a lot to online people and say I wasn't, but that was because I thought it was "cool" to not be a virgin. As I gotten older, I thought... "oh well."

Answer this question.. Do you want to remember losing it to a slut or someone who wasn't anything to you, or someone who means something to you and wouldn't mind remembering the time in the future?

 

[DrPepper]

I'm 16 and proud to be a virgin....

 

[Quackster]

Virgin shaming is pathetic. People who are virgins while still young are responsible. They should be respected.

 

[Hindi]

18 and still virgin, 19 in january, saving it for "the one"

ofcourse @Sledmore tried to rape me once but got away

 

[ano2k77]

Erm, virgin I would say is something to be proud of if you're a young person like 1-15 years old, if you're 16+ It's not something to be exactly ashamed of, just wait for the right person!

 

[LeChris]

Honestly I'm 14 and it seems to be left alone really. We don't have people who are cool because they aren't virgins. If your around my age and not a virgin your a slut and life just sucks. Had a lot of people start getting home schooled because of how bad it is if your not a virgin. So it's a good thing /3

 

[Obey]

i hve secks erryday

 

[Magic]

I lost it at 15 with a girl I really like and we still go out, Has it changed my life in anyway? Nope, if you do it you do it. If you don't you don't. People who shame you for being a virgin are most likely virgins themselves or have a small penis.

 

[Brackson]

I'm 15 and just had my first kiss a few weeks ago, but I think that being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of. I personally want to wait for sex until I'm married, but that's just me. I respect anyone who wants to have sex before that though (as long as it's consensual and you're in love).

The only people who shame virgins are assholes and are pathetic.

 

[Doge]

Depends who you know and where you live.
Where I live, you're shamed upon if you haven't lost it at 15.
I lost it 3 years ago.

They're even talking about lowering the age to 15 in the UK aren't they?

 

[ano2k77]

Depends who you know and where you live.
Where I live, you're shamed upon if you haven't lost it at 15.
I lost it 3 years ago.

They're even talking about lowering the age to 15 in the UK aren't they?

They have lowered the age to 15 in the UK

 

[VaginaMuncher]

If her age isn't on the clock. shes ready for the cock

 

[Scorp]

I'm prouddd


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[Keno]

Why does it matter anyway? If you go around bragging saying stuff like "I banged this and that" then you're an attention seeking moron that should keep that stuff confidential!!!! But it's up to you if you want to keep your virginity or not!!!!!! kisses ;*

 

[Sabo]

I think it just means that you are saving your virginity for the RIGHT person.

 

[Crup]

I've known a lot of people who wished they lost their virginity at a later time or to the right person.

 

[Zeddicus]

Depends on your age.

17 or under: Be proud, you're responsible. You don't want to risk losing your whole life due to having to take care of a child at such an early age.
18 or up: Congratulations, now that you're legal you're exercising your rights to have sexual intercourse with another eligible adult. Whipee.

It's not much of a big deal, to be honest. I mean if I ever have sex I'd want to be with a girl whom I truly love, I don't want a prostitute or a one night stand. I don't want to have sex at such a young age due to religious purposes and the risk of having a baby is too damn high.