That's what happens to most people so that point is invalid. Most people will work for someone making their dreams come true, not your own dream.
Real simple answer to this is, No.
If people followed the rules you wouldn't have this problem, It's a good idea non of the less, but it's not the FR Moderators fault, if they can't follow rules, then it's their own fault.
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