Stop bullying after reading this! OR SEND IT TO A BULLY!! :)

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Alright well I've been subject to bullying when I was younger like I'm sure almost every person reason this thread has been too. I'll be honest to say that I did it a bit as well when I was younger, ignorant and very foolish and do very much so regret it just as every bully does. I've found most of the people I can remember that I did bully through Habbo to apologize and try to make it right. It wasn't like I was a bully all the time, but I did like to talk shit.

As I've been growing up, I've seen at least 4 cases of children killing themselves due to online bullying. It's either because someone said something about them not being beautiful when everyone is, it's just that not everyone's beauty is the same and you're the only one that can let that shine. EVERYONE is beautiful.

Unfortunately a few of these cases are from even Habbo itself. Not to mention the countless damaged egos and confidence from a lot of kids. So many kids are so evil to point out the most random thing and tear someone down for it. BUT HEY! In the end it's just a body. It's what's inside that counts.

Anywho, today and in the past I've tried contacting one person in a friendly manor, but he's a cruel bully who I've decided to make an example of. I initially contacted him because of his tutorial posted on how to set up a new UI retro after not being around since the V26 days. He had posted his Skype as well..

I contact him today after a while because I was bored and being completely friendly. This is what the conversation had turned into. I noticed he was being very cruel for next to no reason so I trolled him a bit as well. The convo is quite long but worth the read for an example, here it is:

On 14-05-12, at 9:25 PM, Corey Champion wrote:

> whos there?



On 14-05-13, at 12:05 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> ?



On 14-05-13, at 1:11 PM, Corey Champion wrote:

> you're the one who knocks?? (His skype motto)



On 14-05-13, at 2:43 PM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> ......



On 14-05-13, at 5:18 PM, Corey Champion wrote:

> you're a cranky bloak aint ya



On 14-05-13, at 10:22 PM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> nah,

> i just hate noobs.

> like, seriously kill yourself



On 14-05-13, at 11:50 PM, Corey Champion wrote:

> LOL

> so like do u have a beerd?



On 14-05-13, at 11:51 PM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> nah bruh. :)

> called shaving.

> something you can't do because you're like, 12.



On 14-05-14, at 12:24 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> that took u 6 minutes to think of?

> LOL



On 14-05-14, at 12:24 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> ye

> it was hard work.



On 14-05-14, at 12:24 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> im 14 and i can think faster ( :trollmode on )

> ur not very smart



On 14-05-14, at 12:24 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> wow, rollin wight he big boys now. :)

> You're not very smart?



On 14-05-14, at 12:24 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> no u



On 14-05-14, at 12:24 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> I am a front-end web developer.



On 14-05-14, at 12:25 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> wats front end



On 14-05-14, at 12:25 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> getting in the game development business.

> google it buddy.

> noob.



On 14-05-14, at 12:25 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> but hey

> wat is it



On 14-05-14, at 12:25 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> You can't make a simple RPG That has all the coding done for you.



On 14-05-14, at 12:25 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> ooooooooommmmmmgggggggg

> habbos not rp noob

> its virtual reality

> VR



On 14-05-14, at 12:26 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> wow.

> just

> wow



On 14-05-14, at 12:26 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> hey how do u get those cool characters in ur name



On 14-05-14, at 12:27 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> easy, first you go into your room right?

> pull your pants down bend over, then.

> shot for your dad to come and anal your ass hole

> :)

> then

> restart skype

> and should be working fine.



On 14-05-14, at 12:27 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> wats anal

> ??



On 14-05-14, at 12:28 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> Well, you see Anal is something your mother likes to get when your dad is in a kinky mood.

> But tbh, you're 14, so, I am not sure if I share the full details. :)



On 14-05-14, at 12:28 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> like analgy?

> my dad does that stuff for work



On 14-05-14, at 12:28 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> Watch some pornos little man.

> yeah i guess you could say that

> :)



On 14-05-14, at 12:29 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> he does analgys on construction

> idk y my mom would want that

> and u dunno them



On 14-05-14, at 12:29 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> Your mums hot.



On 14-05-14, at 12:29 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> y

> HEY

> wats ur game



On 14-05-14, at 12:31 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> my game?

> i don't have any games, i don't make games b0ski.

> br0ski*



On 14-05-14, at 12:31 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> u said u making game

> and ur front end developer

> wats ur website

> i dont believe u



On 14-05-14, at 12:32 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> wait.

> i didn't know i was making a game?

> when did I say that? :)

> getting in the game development business.



On 14-05-14, at 12:32 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> omg



On 14-05-14, at 12:32 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> oh you mean that?

> ahha, please read again, sorry corey, for any inconvenience caused at this moment of time. :)



On 14-05-14, at 12:33 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> u said ur getting in game development

> wat game



On 14-05-14, at 12:34 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> I have many games in mind at the moment, in my VET Class

> My VET Teacher is interested in pursuing this game with me, we're thinking maybe of like a horror/adventure or maybe an FPS/Adventure.

> :)



On 14-05-14, at 12:35 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> um

> veternarian?

> my dog went there

> once



On 14-05-14, at 12:35 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> Are you stupid?

> Vocational Education and Training

> :)



On 14-05-14, at 12:36 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> no are you?

> wats vocational

> hey



On 14-05-14, at 12:38 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> what is you?



On 14-05-14, at 12:39 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> im cool



On 14-05-14, at 12:39 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> Tbh



On 14-05-14, at 12:39 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> i even have a gf



On 14-05-14, at 12:39 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> I feel ashamed of you.

> You're Canadian.

> My parents are Canadian.



On 14-05-14, at 12:39 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> cool



On 14-05-14, at 12:39 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> I feel ashamed of you.



On 14-05-14, at 12:40 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> ask them if they like maple syrup

> i love it



On 14-05-14, at 12:40 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> Gross.



On 14-05-14, at 12:40 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> u dont like it?

> ur weird



On 14-05-14, at 12:40 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> :)

> Different*



On 14-05-14, at 12:40 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> lol ur different



On 14-05-14, at 1:27 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> wats ur website

> hey

> nips

> nipster

> hamster

> nippy the hamster



On 14-05-14, at 1:30 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> what makes you think i would have a website?

> :)



On 14-05-14, at 1:30 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> bcus u think ur so smart

> even i have a website lol



On 14-05-14, at 1:31 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> really? Nice. :) And ye I am pretty smart, working on a site called iCompile atm.

> :)



On 14-05-14, at 1:31 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> like winrar?



On 14-05-14, at 1:31 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> no.

> jus

> kill urself pls

> btw

> you said you haven't been into hotels since v26 days

> you were like 7, lol

> :) over half way till 11,000 views.

> :)

> :)



On 14-05-14, at 1:36 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> u kno u can use ctrl + h to replace all rite



On 14-05-14, at 1:36 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> its a tutorial

> :)



On 14-05-14, at 1:40 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> um kool?

> my website is

> u can unlock client with 1648 if u want

> we have kool swfs



On 14-05-14, at 1:40 AM, Simplicity(Nippy)ᶠᶸᶜᵏᵧₒᵤ ✔☂ wrote:

> ded

> ded

> ded

> ded

> ded

> kill urself

> pls



On 14-05-14, at 1:41 AM, Corey Champion wrote:

> lol wat

> wat!?!??!!

> omg waaat!??!??!!!!!!!

> so bud how old are you lol?

> probably some 16 year old who has no idea about the impact of telling someone to kill themselves would be

> on top of that you're telling me who's apparently a 14 year old to do so

> How does that do anything for you or the supposed 14 year old?

> You're an ignorant boy who still has a lot of growing up to do haha. You even chose a song about love and loving the world in your video

> This will be posted in some section on devbest. Have a nice day! :)


So overall he told a person who he thought was 14 to go "Kill yourself pls" "Seriously, go kill yourself". If he had found out that the supposed 14 year old did kill himself, would he care? Maybe, and if he was a normal human being and did care, it would follow him the rest of his life and he could never be the same knowing that he truly was the the person who encouraged a 14 year old to go kill themselves.

After just looking at his profile, he tells that to others as well to kill themselves and if you look at the other comments, you'll notice that lots of people really appreciate his tutorial made and think he's a great guy, but then what if he told a real impressionable 14 year old he's a stupid noob who should go kill himself.. what if he did?

This guy is 18 and truly hasn't grown up. When you grow up you stop being that bully and finally realize the problems behind it with why you treat another person that way. You realize that it was a horrible thing and you regret it all. Why have regrets?

So many more great things will happen for you if you're positive and nice! See the positive in the world and ignore the negative, that's the only way you'll go forward in life. Only seeing the negative will keep bringing you down. 1+2 = 3+1 = 4,etc 1-1=0 0-1 = 0-1=0, etc. See where I'm going with this? Negitivity will get you nowhere. Positivity will get you to places you've never known or seen before.

So please if you know this Nippy fellow OR ANYONE LIKE HIM, don't diss him/her and just be another bully. Ask him why his is the way is and ask if you can help. Be positive.

NOW TRUST ME AND CLICK THIS TO WATCH THIS YOUTUBE VIDEO!!!

(The embedded youtube vid won't work.. :S)


These kids are how old? And how smart?
Age is just a number, not a meter of your wits.​
 
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Weasel

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Sorry but what you did here makes you a very big hypocrite. You literally "abused" quite a popular object in this thread.

Basicly what you did here is make a fool out of yourself and spread a private conversation between you and a fellow DevBest member, making him look bad. It's not even that - you even provoked him to do it. What does this make you? Right, this also makes you a cyber bully, and thus a hypocrite. You even dedicated a whole thread to it, making it look like that isn't the purpose of this thread.

So a basic summary of this thread:
- You don't give us actual facts or statistics about this subject, just some of your personal experiences where your only proof we have is your word.
- You made a fellow DevBest member look bad by provoking him, and making a fool out of yourself
- You even ADVERTISE your RETRO

And as you took a quick look at Nippy's profile, I took a quick look at yours. 22 messages. Why do you even post this whole thread here? Sorry, but you really should take a good look in the mirror and think of what you are about to do before you make such threads.
 

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K so started to take this thread serious until about the 4th line where I read 'I found all the people I used to bully'......'on habbo'

Then I just skipped it all and wrote this post
 

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K so started to take this thread serious until about the 4th line where I read 'I found all the people I used to bully'......'on habbo'

Then I just skipped it all and wrote this post
Well if you read on you'll learn that I realized what I did and also tried to do my best to make it right.

if you let other people's words affect you, you don't deserve to be on the Internet
What? Are those rules something that people are aware of when going onto the internet? That doesn't change the fact that people have commit suicide over these issues and that they could just be nice in the first place.

Sorry but what you did here makes you a very big hypocrite. You literally "abused" quite a popular object in this thread.

Basicly what you did here is make a fool out of yourself and spread a private conversation between you and a fellow DevBest member, making him look bad. It's not even that - you even provoked him to do it. What does this make you? Right, this also makes you a cyber bully, and thus a hypocrite. You even dedicated a whole thread to it, making it look like that isn't the purpose of this thread.

So a basic summary of this thread:
- You don't give us actual facts or statistics about this subject, just some of your personal experiences where your only proof we have is your word.
- You made a fellow DevBest member look bad by provoking him, and making a fool out of yourself
- You even ADVERTISE your RETRO

And as you took a quick look at Nippy's profile, I took a quick look at yours. 22 messages. Why do you even post this whole thread here? Sorry, but you really should take a good look in the mirror and think of what you are about to do before you make such threads.

- How am I a hypocrite when I'm not a bully anymore? That's like saying an ex-alchoholic who's an activist to stop alcoholism is a hypocrite.
- If you want statistics that's a personal problem and they can be requested via a reply like normal people do.
- I didn't provoke him to do anything. He did it to himself. I was being nice and making humurous comments. Never once was a negative, mean or anything that I knew would lead to that. I guess I did provoke him to answer.
- It states no where in the section rules that this isn't allowed to post a hotel link, and this was not my motivation at all to write this.
- I posted a thread here because I am a DevBest user and so is the user who I made the example of. I don't post much because I've never had much need to.

There, I just debunked your so called summary which is also an opinion. Summaries are usually non-biased.

Like I posted in the thread, if it's against the rules to post the link then so be it. I'd welcome a staff member to remove the link and gracefully say sorry for not being aware of the broken rule. I also consulted with a staff member of this forum if I could post this and I was given the green light, not the hotel link however. Since it's raised some controversy I'll remove my hotel link to avoid any arguments.

SUICIDE & BULLYING
Peer victimization in children and adolescents is associated with higher rates of suicidal ideation and suicide attempts (JAMA Pediatrics, 2014).

Cyberbullying was strongly related suicidal ideation in comparison with traditional bullying (JAMA Pediatrics, 2014).

22% of frequent perpetrators only, 29% of frequent victims only, and 38% of frequent bully-victims reported suicidal thinking or a suicide attempt during the past year. Several environmental risk factors and risk behaviors were associated with suicidal thinking and behavior among youth involved in bullying (Adolescent
Health, 2013).

Source:
 

Weasel

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Well if you read on you'll learn that I realized what I did and also tried to do my best to make it right.


What? Are those rules something that people are aware of when going onto the internet? That doesn't change the fact that people have commit suicide over these issues and that they could just be nice in the first place.



- How am I a hypocrite when I'm not a bully anymore? That's like saying an ex-alchoholic who's an activist to stop alcoholism is a hypocrite.
- If you want statistics that's a personal problem and they can be requested via a reply like normal people do.
- I didn't provoke him to do anything. He did it to himself. I was being nice and making humurous comments. Never once was a negative, mean or anything that I knew would lead to that. I guess I did provoke him to answer.
- It states no where in the section rules that this isn't allowed, and this was not my motivation at all to write this.
- I posted a thread here because I am a DevBest user and so is the user who I made the example of. I don't post much because I've never had much need to.

There, I just debunked your so called summary which is also an opinion. Summaries are usually non-biased.

Like I posted in the thread, if it's against the rules to post the link then so be it. I'd welcome a staff member to remove the link and gracefully say sorry for not being aware of the broken rule. I also consulted with a staff member of this forum if I could post this and I was given the green light, not the hotel link however. Since it's raised some controversy I'll remove my hotel link to avoid any arguments.

Oh to the contrary you didn't debunked my reply at all. You just make a bigger fool out of yourself.

- How am I a hypocrite when I'm not a bully anymore? That's like saying an ex-alchoholic who's an activist to stop alcoholism is a hypocrite.
You aren't really smart I suppose after I read this sentence. You posted a thread which totally sets a DevBest member in a bad light, out of something that happened in private. 50% of the thread is about Nippy. You intended to make him feel bad - and making people feel bad is what a bully does. Yes, you are a hypocrite. And to rephrase your example: It's like saying an ex-alcoholic who's an activist to stop alcoholism by drinking alcohol - and yes, that's being a hypocrite.
- If you want statistics that's a personal problem and they can be requested via a reply like normal people do.
Why should I reply statistics and facts about the bullying subject in general through a PM? If the bullying really is your main concern in this thread - you would have included some important information about the subject, which you didn't.
- I didn't provoke him to do anything. He did it to himself. I was being nice and making humurous comments. Never once was a negative, mean or anything that I knew would lead to that. I guess I did provoke him to answer.
What did he exactly do to himself? You made a fool of yourself, he became mad. He could have blocked you, yes. But in fact, this is not an example at all. Because your "example" is you being a anoying prick acting like a 10 year old and you even call it "trolling" yourself - yes if you do that I totally agree with @eckostylez - get the fuck off the internet.
- It states no where in the section rules that this isn't allowed, and this was not my motivation at all to write this.
I am not stating it is against the rules anywhere. And like I said, if bullying was your main concern to write this, why didn't you include some vital information about the subject, and why didn't you do it before with a actual example you didn't create yourself?
- I posted a thread here because I am a DevBest user and so is the user who I made the example of. I don't post much because I've never had much need to.
You probably shouldn't have done it.
 

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What? Are those rules something that people are aware of when going onto the internet? That doesn't change the fact that people have commit suicide over these issues and that they could just be nice in the first place.
Rules... lmfao. You're either incredibly naive or incredibly stupid (probably both). This is not some utopian society where everyone is perfect. Life is full of good and bad people and if you are affected by WORDS and coward out by committing suicide, then I say good riddance. There are far worse things in this world than WORDS and the insecurities that come with it.
 

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This is a stupid thread, and you're kind of sad for posting it. @JackSparrow is more than right, you posted this with intent to get Nippy to feel super bad in front of DevBest and don't come with bullshit that you didn't.

Delete the thread or get a mod to instead of wasting every bodies time.
 

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Oh to the contrary you didn't debunked my reply at all. You just make a bigger fool out of yourself.

- How am I a hypocrite when I'm not a bully anymore? That's like saying an ex-alchoholic who's an activist to stop alcoholism is a hypocrite.
You aren't really smart I suppose after I read this sentence. You posted a thread which totally sets a DevBest member in a bad light, out of something that happened in private. 50% of the thread is about Nippy. You intended to make him feel bad - and making people feel bad is what a bully does. Yes, you are a hypocrite. And to rephrase your example: It's like saying an ex-alcoholic who's an activist to stop alcoholism by drinking alcohol - and yes, that's being a hypocrite.
- If you want statistics that's a personal problem and they can be requested via a reply like normal people do.
Why should I reply statistics and facts about the bullying subject in general through a PM? If the bullying really is your main concern in this thread - you would have included some important information about the subject, which you didn't.
- I didn't provoke him to do anything. He did it to himself. I was being nice and making humurous comments. Never once was a negative, mean or anything that I knew would lead to that. I guess I did provoke him to answer.
What did he exactly do to himself? You made a fool of yourself, he became mad. He could have blocked you, yes. But in fact, this is not an example at all. Because your "example" is you being a anoying prick acting like a 10 year old and you even call it "trolling" yourself - yes if you do that I totally agree with @eckostylez - get the fuck off the internet.
- It states no where in the section rules that this isn't allowed, and this was not my motivation at all to write this.
I am not stating it is against the rules anywhere. And like I said, if bullying was your main concern to write this, why didn't you include some vital information about the subject, and why didn't you do it before with a actual example you didn't create yourself?
- I posted a thread here because I am a DevBest user and so is the user who I made the example of. I don't post much because I've never had much need to.
You probably shouldn't have done it.
- Not lying about my life which would be the present.

Meh you can also google as well if you wanted to find them. I was well aware and it's a thread. Heck, people posting releases or any other threads don't cover every single base to make sure every single persons preference is satisfied. In the end I provided valid facts.

Hmm is there such thing as a white hat troller? Or as some people on the internet know them as white knights? Bottom line is that I acted that way instead of bringing the same hateful and cruel comments back to him. I used humour instead rather than ignoring a problem that will continue. Soo it's either I let this to continue or be like everyone else and do shit all while the problem still continues. His feelings I'm sure are barely hurt. What he could have done to a fragile and insecure person though could have been a lot worse, and the possibility based on the statistics is undeniable.

Please provide me facts of how I wasn't a decent actor of a 14 year old? He can come to me any time and let me know he will change his ways and I'd take it down and maybe try to talk to him. Problem is that people's egos especially in these development forums are too big to even have a mature conversation half the time or people just simply don't keep their word or are honest so it's hard to believe anyone to be a genuine person.

Like it or not a lot of the countries in the world have give or take half the population active in online communities. The statistics show that things like this example could have been a very well unsuspecting 14 year old who was just torn down to the point where he already has suicide speculations, but this tipped him over the edge. There has been lots of suicidal thoughts, self inflicted pain, and suicides. Most of these people just wanted some positivity and love. Someone to see how beautiful they are.

Overall, whether or not people like this thread it is something that will make this user think twice no matter how controversial it may be. Like it or not it's getting a few more views from the links I'm sharing. Like it or not, this is the type of example and thread that maybe, just maybe... one person will see and be like damn.. I didn't know that it could have had that much of a hurtful effect on that person. Well to that person:

You've made the first step to realizing the effect your ways may have. Now please try to understand and learn how much greater a compliment or kindness will have on a person. It's a win win situation, rather than a lose lose.
 

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"Bottom line is that I acted that way instead of bringing the same hateful and cruel comments back to him."
That almost made me puke. Really, you are so ignorant and probably indeed stupid.

You are not a "White hat troller" or a "White knight". If you had a small amount of intelligence, you would have stopped the conversation. And that doesn't only count for you, it counts for everyone who's being "hurt" in such private conversations. You block the person and delete him. You don't continue to provoke him and make stupid remarks - because you just ASK for it. You did not provide ANY facts, and the only one you do have is that conversation which isn't even actual proof.

"Problem is that people's egos especially in these development forums are too big to even have a mature conversation half the time or people just simply don't keep their word or are honest so it's hard to believe anyone to be a genuine person."
PLEASE, just PLEASE go to ANY other forum with the EXACT same thread and screenshot the comments you get there. Our ego is not big, yours is. You are so eager to proof you are right and that the only bad person in that conversation is Nippy.

"The statistics show that things like this example could have been a very well unsuspecting 14 year old who was just torn down to the point where he already has suicide speculations, but this tipped him over the edge. "
WHICH statistics? The ones I asked for in my first reply and where there still are no signs of in this thread?

"Like it or not, this is the type of example and thread that maybe, just maybe... one person will see and be like damn.. I didn't know that it could have had that much of a hurtful effect on that person. Well to that person:"
What should this thread make someone aware? Please quote me the part of your thread which should make bully's aware of what they are doing. Most of them are, because when you bully it is your intention to make someone feel bad. And your intention in this thread was to make feel bully's bad - which makes you a hypocrite, and it doesn't matter how much dictionaries you quote.
 

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I would think that most of what is said by young people on the Internet is just Hormones that turns people into loose Cannons sometimes. Or uneducated minors that don't know any better. I remember being a Bitch at Puberty. Seriously, find something else to vent your Anger.
 

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@Donovan I will admit there was an angry undertone I had while I was writing it. What truly triggered it was as soon as he said "like seriously, go kill yourself.". I looked at his remark as if it were serious like he asked and did get angry.

@JackSparrow
Check post #6 at the bottom. Quotes are hard to notice on this forum theme sometimes

I've had a few friends I've known of who inflicted extreme pain on themselves, I've known friends who have attempted suicide, I've known people in communities who actually have commit suicide and "Seriously, killed themselves" and have volunteered at a summer BBQ that was for kids who had a suicide pact because of the hurtful things their parents say, and other kids. I've counselled the ones that were close to me the best I could as a friend. I learned each time is that they just needed someone to care, someone to actually say "you're worth it" or to just try their best to do something about it.

Now whether or not you all want to just chock it up to being adolescence and puberty, this is still happening and you're the ones that are clearly ignoring this fact. I am so eager to debate this because this is what an activist does. I'll admit I'm a bit harsh in this thread, that is because I have no little compassion if his feelings may be hurt because of this.

After realizing he has absolutely none for others by not jokingly telling people to kill themselves, but reiterating that he's serious with this claim well I decided that I couldn't take the chance that if one of these few people in the stats who commit, have thoughts about it, or inflict pain were to see this after being nice no matter how much pain they might have they might lose hope in the world if they were to take him seriously.

My point I'm trying to get across is that no matter how much you might want people to read the hidden lines or ignore people, it clearly doesn't happen. Look at how effective bullies are, cybar bullying, bullying in general. If that's not something imporant that happened in a brutal way in this conversation, please tell me you also deny the facts in the statistics given in post #6.
 

Weasel

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You are such a ignorant person, but I think you are just a bit too immature to think about this subject with a clear head.

I am not denying the facts in the article, but I am saying your so called example just makes your whole point look like how Conchita Wurst should be a female.

Because like I said multiple times, you provoked Nippy. If someone who is being bullied keeps provoking the person who is being the bully and thanks to being bullied gets suicide thoughts - that person is really dumb.

This subject is going on for ages. It's a hot topic. And your thread should what, raise awareness? "Spread the love"?

Your whole fascade makes me sick. Everyone knows your real motive for all this. If you want to proof otherwise, rewrite the thread with more facts and not only YOUR examples and YOUR "experiences".

Like @eckostylez said, those people should get the fuck off the internet, and so should you.
 
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