I don't think it has something to do with SWFs. Alot of people's r63b work on localhost but when they portforward, it just stays black. Does your emu stays " Connection Received. Lets do this" or something similar?
Well, AdBlock for me blocks me from connecting to client, I always have to pause it before I enter. I also know a couple of people who had this problem and was fixed when they disabled it.
Do what sim0n said,
Copy all the info for the current dino egg, then click insert table, or add.
Then write the same info but change the catalog_page to the VIP page ID.
On client, do :update_catalogue and it should work
This is written for Phoenix EMU, if you are using a different emu, just say so