At the end of the day, retro's break the law, and owners understand this. There isn't a right/wrong, if you're going to intend on reaching the top with your retro, you should beware of the consequences.
As there are many websites out there for people to visit for the abused etc. As you're only 14 how can you offer advise that is expected by an 'adult'.
Grow some more before you go into this, leave it to the 'professionals'.